Posted in A New Year, Culture, Faith Life

How extending grace can shift our focus

As I recall several occasions especially in the last few months, where I was given grace that I was not deserving of, I am grateful.

As we wrap up and move into a new year, I pray that I am intentional in being gracious towards others, deserving or otherwise.

May the new year bring about a shift in our focus towards service that honors our Father in Heaven.

 

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Posted in Photography 101, Resources, Social Media Connect, Storytelling, Writing

Why giving credit to stay out of trouble may not be enough?

I must confess soaking in a podcast with great content is like a scoop of soft serve ice cream on a hot summer day!

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So you know, I was on cloud infinity the other day, when  I stumbled upon juicy nuggets listening to a podcast that was spot on.  It shed some light on the pitfalls in this culture of social media and content sharing, in which using content by others has become mainstream.  Sharing on its face is not the issue, however being aware and not crossing these not so defined boundaries of sharing or reposting is where the challenge lies.

In general, giving credit to the “source” seems adequate but what happens where the source does not own rights to that capitivating shot of the Bay bridge or that post that would fit right in with the rest of your well curated content on Instagram?  Things can get sticky and that is where requesting permission in addition to giving credit may be the smart approach to avoid potential fires in the future.

Here are a few considerations with your next share with your tribe of followers hat may help in keeping the lawsuits or and cease and desist letters at bay.

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The information gleaned from the podcast was so rich, so juicy, the urge to share with others is almost overwhelming and looking gorgeous from my vantage point.  You guessed right, best believe, my request is going to have “receive permission” and “give credit” written all over it.

Happy sharing!

 

Posted in Creative Content, Culture, Faith Life, Lifelong Learning, Storytelling, Uncategorized

Kemelayefa Crisis- Identity Crisis

It had been three years since their meeting at IDC by the 7th floor elevator banks.

In spite of several invitations, Kem’s schedule seemed to never allow him make it to Bible study at Tam’s church such that he was pleasantly surprised when he got a call from Kem asking if he could join them at the next Bible study. 

Tam made a mental note to talk with Kem after their Bible study about finding a Bible based home church even if OTR was not an option.  From the Kem’s questions asked during the Bible study, it was clear he had at a minimum a curiosity about a personal relationship with God but seemed to think he needed “to “be ready” before he could make himself fully available. 

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He suspected this desire to draw closer to God had something to do with Kem’s efforts to get back in Sammie’s good books.  Sammie had made it clear that her relationship with God was her first priority.  In Kem’s words “I am pulling out the heavy artillery for this one.”.  He had met Sammie about  a year ago and things seemed to be going well. 

However, he was surprised when seven months into the relationship Kem decided it was best for him and Sammie to go their separate ways.  Tam’s cue was how, Sammie seemed to come up more often lately in Kem’s conversations. 

It had been two weeks since the Bible study at OTR when Kem called to ask that they meetup the next day to go over the design mockups for Kanyi’s group.   Continue reading “Kemelayefa Crisis- Identity Crisis”

Posted in Intellectual Assets, Lifelong Learning, Social Media Connect, Storytelling

3 questions to ask before providing valuable feedback

 

What would I say? How would I say what I liked or did not like?  Would it be insensitive to tell it like it was?

My fingers beat my brain to it and by the time it dawned on me the confirmation that email had been sent had popped up on my screen.  My euphoria was short-lived and what I was feeling at that point in time was nothing short of raw consternation.

Here, I was battling a deluge of emotions and also attempting to manage the anxiety this simple email request had inflicted on me.  I was quickly transported back to the white knuckle moments waiting on a response from the bank to my offer and dreading the call from the agent after two rejections on previous offers.  The difference with the third offer was I had found a home I wanted needed.  I had no doubt in my mind, I did not have it in me to stomach another rejection and resume the search online as well as traveling from one end of town to the other to view properties.    Continue reading “3 questions to ask before providing valuable feedback”

Posted in Creative Content, Culture, Faith Life, Flash Fiction, Storytelling, Writing

Kemelayefa’s Crisis -Lets Talk

“I am done.  I can’t do this anymore.”

Kem blurted out, clutching his head between his palms, his anguished expression partially visible to Tam.

“My guy! what’s the problem?”

“It’s Rio.”

“Backup, what about her?  Are you not trying to work things out with Sammie?”

“Arrghhhh!! yes that was…is still my plan but…”

Kem had met up with Tam .  He wanted Tam’s opinion on some t-shirt mockups for Kanyi’s  youth camp group taking place in a few months.

Tam which was short for Tambari placed his glass down on the wooden slab table, wiping off the droplets from his sweating glass with a napkin.

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“What are you talking about Kemelayefa?”

Kem slowly raised his head.

What? Tam asked astonished by how quickly Kem switched from the  bewildering facial expression to a relaxed countenance.

“Oh its nothing!”

Tam sounded like his father, the way he pronounced his full name.  Kem short for Kemelayefa which means nothing is greater than a human being, was named after his Ijaw maternal grandfather.

 Tam continued ” I thought that the business with Rio ended when you made the decision to work things out with Sammie?”

Kem was quiet.  Tambari knew his friend all too well, so his non responsiveness was even more disquieting.

Continue reading “Kemelayefa’s Crisis -Lets Talk”

Posted in Storytelling, Weekly Photo Challenge, Writing

Nostalgia – Photo Challenge

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On a beautiful day as this, with the rays of the sun traveling down our backs, the smells from the harbor wafting in the background,  the memories flooded back with such an inexplicable intensity.

Rearing its head at an organic pace was that intimate, sentimental yearning for a return to a time past.

In a different time, on a different day, this would be the simplest request – the drive down that hilly thoroughfare in that ride, both of which are no more.

Ever wonder about these remnants and “What should have or maybe could have” been here in the Rocks, or not?

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Know the difference(s) before you provide your next feedback; Customer Reviews versus Testimonials.

The difference between Customer Reviews and Testimonials

Reviews are evaluations of products or services usually written by clients or customers on social media sites  like Amazon, Better Business Bureau, Yelp, TripAdvisor and OpenTable to name a few.

These reviews could be provide either positive or negative feedback and allow the vendor or merchant to respond to the feedback provided by the customer on product pages, search engines or a separate review website.

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Testimonials serve as a way of showing off how others have benefited from your product or service.  Unlike customer reviews it is not conversational which means the provider does not have the opportunity to respond to the feedback provided.  It is a powerful tool for building trust and encouraging potential buyers to take action.

Testimonials are meant to demonstrate success and so the more specific the testimonials with regard to the tangible impact of the services or product provided and the client’s overall experience, the more effective it is.